Sunday, August 15, 2010

Crashed

Sometimes I feel like I live in a soap opera. Espisode 1????.

Yesterday Tetsu and I cleaned awhile and then went out to lunch. Did some shopping, ran into a friend and had coffee together. Came home. Correction. Tried to come home. About a mile from home a van crossed over the center line and rammed into our car! My new little Toyota was assaulted!

Tetsu swerved to the side of the road when he saw this van coming toward us and I wasn't even sure we'd been hit. We pulled off into some factory driveway while the van stopped at the side of the road and sure enough our side mirror was gone and the rear side was smashed in. Not a lot but enough! The young man driving the van (working van) apologized up and down but didn't have the slightest idea of what he should do next. My husband somewhat successfully kept his temper under control.

Call the police. Stand around for 15 minutes while they get there. It's not like you can make pleasant small talk with the crashee. Tetsu barked out suggestions.

"Don't you think you should call your employer? Don't you think you might have him contact the company's insurance agent?"

Finally the policeman showed up (I was barely in America and I met one policeman, I'm barely back in Japan and I meet another one) and questioned both parties and vaguely let us know that after he took his report it was up to us to figure out who was responsible... That did not make Tetsu happy.

"Excuse me. HE crossed over the center line."

The young man was on his cell phone trying to get someone in his company to come out and help him. Tetsu was on his cell phone talking to his insurance person and the car dealership. Tetsu and the young man were exchanging cell phones to give their respective parties information and Tetsu was having more and more trouble keeping his temper down. (Also, as it was explained to us, since our car was also moving we are 50% responsible.)

"Everyone is incompetent!"

After two hours of sitting in the sweltering car I struck out towards home... Got my daily pedometer count in... and Tetsu arrived home an hour later still fuming. All I can say is that I now realize why it is important to carry a cell phone.

This morning Tetsu is in a bad mood. Barely grunting at me and scowling at the world. I don't know why he's angry at me! Thank goodness I wasn't driving! Makes me wish I'd stayed another week in the States! Good luck to the people in his office today!

On the bright side (which even Tetsu recognizes) no one was hurt, the car isn't badly damaged, everyone has insurance. My poor little car is going in for repairs today...

14 comments:

Mimi said...

So sad this happened.... good point about the cell phone in the 21st century.... even though we survived just fine 40 years ago without one..... Stay safe.

Anonymous said...

So sorry about the accident. Glad that no one was hurt. I hope that your husband comes home in a little better mood.
cindy

Mary said...

I'm glad no one was hurt. All the rest is a pain but can eventually be sorted out.

catsmum said...

how on earth can it be in any way your fault when HE was on the wrong side of the road ?

Katie said...

Oh my goodness. I'm glad you and Tetsu weren't hurt!

Shasta said...

I'm glad you are okay. I'm sure it would have been worse for Tetsu if you weren't there to support him. I'd probably be grumpy too.

Magia da Inês said...

♥ Olá, amiga!
Passei para uma visitinha...
Bom fim de semana!
Tudo de bom!!!♥
Beijinhos.
Itabira♥♥
♥♥Brasil

The Calico Quilter said...

Heavens, I'm so glad you're all OK! But let me get this straight -he crossed over the line and hit you, but because you were moving it's 50% your fault???!!! In what insane world is that possible? It was a good thing that you WERE moving so you could evade the accident, and that Tetsu is a good driver, or he would have plowed right over you! Your insurance may go up since this idiot hit you. How unfair is that?

Jan said...

So sorry this happened, glad you are all unhurt, if vastly frazzled.

Jay said...

Oh my! I"m so glad that no one was hurt. I hope that you can do some hand work to take your mind this accident. Bright Blessings and Happy Stitches! Jay

AnnieO said...

Glad you and Tetsu were okay! I had to laugh at your getting out and walking home after an hour, too funny. I hope your little car is all better soon.

Meggie said...

So glad there was no more than wounded pride! My daughter had her car smashed into, in a car park, then the person who was resposible, totally denied it, while he was admitting to hitting another car, in the same car park!
Do hope it is all resolved now.

Quilter Kathy said...

So glad that no one was hurt...this could have resulted in terrible injury. In Canada, the other driver would likely be charged with careless driving, be fined up to $1,000 and also get time in jail!

Sew Create It - Jane said...

Sorry to read about your accident...but relieved to know that you are ok. Can't believe that you are 50% responsible..doesn't seem fair.